If you lean against a boardwalk railing in the evening, you’ll see damselflies hanging out. Perhaps this couple is contemplating a late night soiree. Seems redundant to talk about female damselflies and downright strange to discuss male damselflies. Guess it doesn’t matter. I can’t tell females from males anyway. For all I know, these two might be entirely different species.
Damselflies fold their wings over their backs when at rest. Dragonflies’ wings are perpendicular to their bodies when they perch.